Tips for creating and following a holiday Parenting Plan

holiday parenting plan

The holiday season can be emotionally taxing, particularly for parents who share custody. With a holiday Parenting Plan, you can be in front of any scheduling conflicts. By partnering with an experienced Washington State Parenting Plans lawyer, you and your former spouse can develop and follow a holiday schedule Parenting Plan that works well for … Read more

Best co-parenting apps to download after divorce

co parenting apps

If you have gone through a divorce in Washington State and have kids, or even if you have ended a non-marital relationship with kids, it is in your children’s best interests to figure out a way to co-parent with your ex-spouse. Fortunately, co-parenting apps are available to help you out. A Washington State child custody … Read more

How to write a character reference for child custody

character reference letter for child custody

When a father is trying to secure time with his child during a divorce, he needs support from everyone around him. One of the most crucial ways friends and family members can help is by submitting character reference letters describing his concern for the children and who he is as a person. How to write … Read more

How to divorce an incarcerated spouse: Here’s what Washington State law has to say

how to divorce an incarcerated spouse

The process of divorcing an incarcerated spouse is not always clear. An experienced Washington State divorce attorney at Divorce Lawyers for Men is here to protect your rights, starting with this brief guide on how to divorce an incarcerated spouse. Can you get a divorce if your spouse is incarcerated? It is a common misunderstanding … Read more

Relocation with Kids in Washington State

Relocation with kids in Washington State

Moving and relocating is a complicated process, especially when you are co-parenting. Though deciding to move often seems like a personal decision, that is not always the case when children are involved. The relocation of children whose parents are divorced or separated is frequently contentious. Because of this, Washington State Courts and the legislature have … Read more

Does Infidelity Affect Divorce?

infidelity and divorce

Many people wonder, does infidelity affect divorce? Recognized as a leading cause of divorce, infidelity can unravel a marriage, causing legal consequences, emotional distress, and new dimensions of betrayal in this digital era. In this blog post, we examine infidelity in divorce, its impact, and how the rise of online infidelity has changed the landscape … Read more

Alimony and Child Support: Unraveling the Differences

man giving alimony or child support to ex-wife with child in background: the difference between alimony and child support.

Alimony and child support are often mistaken as interchangeable terms since both are typically monthly payments to a former spouse. However, it’s crucial to understand that these are distinct legal concepts with notable differences. Join us as we debunk this common misconception, shedding light on the differences between alimony and child support and revealing how … Read more

How to Deal With Summer Visitation as a Divorced Dad

how to deal with summer visitation as a dad: father and son watching sunset

How to deal with summer visitation? This can be an especially challenging question for divorced fathers. Whether you are the primary caregiver or not, being prepared for summer visitation is crucial. This article will cover helpful strategies, including giving your children a platform to express their emotions, educating them about differing rules at each parent’s … Read more

The Economic Benefits of Gay Marriage

economic benefits of gay marriage

The economic impact of marriage equality 8 years after Obergefell v. Hodges Considering the events of recent years, it has become apparent that love may be the key to holding everything together. Many have watched the stock market quake, brought on by a flurry of uncertainty. But one event has proven to be a source … Read more

Father’s Day Gift Guide

Father's Day Gift Guide

Father’s Day is quickly coming up, and to celebrate, we put together a gift guide full of items and present ideas for the special, hard-working dads in your life. And hey, if you want to get yourself something nice, we fully encourage it! For the Dad Who Just Wants to Stay Home Subscription service Don’t … Read more

Should I Represent Myself in My Own Divorce?

Should I Represent Myself in My Own Divorce?

Representing yourself: is it a good idea? This is a question everyone should ask before they hire an attorney to handle their divorce. Attorneys are expensive. Only hire one if you need one. The question is whether hiring an attorney will save you money or cost you more than they save you. The answer to … Read more

Are Parenting Classes Mandatory in Washington State?

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Washington State Courts impose a mandatory requirement for parents going through the legal system to attend parenting classes for divorce, modification of parenting plans, and parentage actions. Essentially, whenever kids are involved, the court does all it can to encourage civility between parents. They want to ensure that the children are insulated as much as … Read more

How to Spend Your Spring Break in Washington State

How to Spend Your Spring Break in Washington State

The sun is setting later, rain clouds are clearing the sky, and flowers are blooming. This can only mean one thing–spring has sprung! While springtime often represents changes and renewal, it also brings one of the most exciting times of the year: spring break. Most of us are not likely to be beachside in Cabo … Read more

What is the Mandatory Waiting Period for Divorce in Washington?

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Are you wondering what the mandatory waiting period is for divorce in the State of Washington? The answer to the question is 90 days. But you may also have bigger questions like: What is a mandatory waiting period for divorce? Why does it exist? What is a mandatory waiting period? Mandatory waiting periods are actually … Read more

5 Problems Adult Children of Divorce Face

5 Difficult Problems Adult Children of Divorce Face

Adult Children of Divorce Face Different Challenges Than Children of Divorce Why it can be difficult to be an adult when your parents divorce Grey Divorce (divorce over 50) rates have nearly doubled in the past 25 years, and this trend shows no signs of slowing down. With this sharp increase, adult children are now … Read more

Divorce Around the World: Facts & Stats

Divorce Facts and Stats

There are many interesting facts and stats regarding divorce.  Some are hard to believe and should be taken with a grain of salt. Often, different sources report conflicting data, further muddying the topic. Here are some of the most interesting (and craziest) divorce fact and stats we’ve come across. Divorce Rates One divorce is filed … Read more

Co-Parenting During the Holidays

Co-Parenting During the Holidays

For many divorced parents, the idea of successfully co-parenting during the holidays seems like as much of a fantasy as an elf-run toy factory at the North Pole. Do not despair though–it is not a fantasy. It is, in fact, possible to successfully interact with your co-parent and thoroughly enjoy the holidays with your children. … Read more

Where to Spend the Holiday Season in Washington State

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The holidays are among us, and that means it is time to enjoy winter festivities with our friends and family. Luckily, the Pacific Northwest hosts a plethora of events and traditions that are sure to bring you and your loved ones some holiday cheer. From jolly parades to stunning light displays, you are sure to … Read more

Will Inflation Have an Impact on My Divorce?

Impacts of Inflation on Divorce

How the growing rate of inflation will affect different aspects of our life seems to be a question on most of our minds these days. If you are wondering whether you will see the impacts of inflation on divorce, the answer is very likely “yes.” The causes and effects of inflation run deep and can … Read more

How The Length Of Your Marriage May Affect Your Divorce

Gray Divorce

Division of property and spousal support are often the two main concerns that arise when couples decide to dissolve their marriage. When it comes to divorce settlements, one major thing the court takes into consideration is the couple’s length of marriage before the divorce. When distributing property between a couple, the court has to determine … Read more

Getting Divorced While Your Spouse is Pregnant: The Legal Issues

Contemplating Divorce

A divorce in itself is a transitional and difficult situation that often brings about stress. While divorce proceedings continue, so does everyday life. This means that you must continue meeting work, familial, and financial obligations. But what happens if you’re divorcing while your spouse is pregnant?  While it will play a role in the divorce, … Read more

5 Common Myths About Child Support

Man helping son ride bike, Child Support Myths

Child support can often be one of the most complicated issues in a divorce. While the marriage has come to an end, the former spouses will remain parents for the rest of their lives. As loving parents, they are committed to providing everything their children need. While many parents pay child support each month, there … Read more

3 Reasons to Never Hack Your Ex’s Email

When large financial assets are at stake in a divorce, spouses often get nervous. It is not uncommon for claims to come from both sides that money is being hidden and someone is trying to avoid paying their fair share. British banker Daniel Arbili was so convinced that his soon to be ex-wife was hiding … Read more

6 Things To Do With Your Kids On Father’s Day Weekend

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HAPPY FATHER’S DAY! Looking for something special to do with your kids this Father’s Day weekend? We at Divorce Lawyers For Men did a little bit of research and discovered six celebratory activities around the Puget Sound that are perfect for you and your kids this Father’s Day. 1. Northwest Trek This wildlife park offers … Read more

Selling the House During Divorce: What You Need To Know

In many divorce situations, considering what happens to the house can quickly become one of the most contentious issues. If neither spouse wants the home or neither can afford to purchase the other’s interest, selling is usually the next option. Below, we cover the factors to consider when determining how to sell a house during … Read more

Does It Matter Who Files for Divorce First?

does it matter who files for divorce first?

Navigating a divorce is usually a difficult and often stressful situation in one’s life. The challenge can be exacerbated if your partner’s filing for divorce comes as a surprise. Although there are pros and cons to being the first to file for divorce, an advantage to consider comes from being well-prepared for the divorce. Many wonder, does it matter who files for divorce first? The answer varies, depending on each situation and the circumstances surrounding the divorce.

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Is My Spouse Entitled To a Portion of My Inheritance During Divorce?

Controlling Divorce Costs

A primary concern of spouses preparing for divorce is how the division of their assets will be determined and what their rights are toward certain property. Specifically, questions of inheritance and divorce can be simple on the surface but become complicated quickly based on other dynamics within the marriage. We delve into Washington’s distinction between … Read more

Dating After Your Divorce? Avoid These 4 Mistakes

Dating after a divorce can be hard. You don’t want to let your divorce sabotage your new relationship. There are several bad habits you should avoid if you’re looking to get out there and start dating. Here are 4 mistakes you don’t want to make. 1. Be Too Close to Your Ex – The Basically … Read more

7 Signs It’s Time to Consider Divorce

Couple sitting separately on couch, contemplating signs of divorce

It crosses every married person’s mind at some point: they wonder if they’d be better off without their spouse. An argument, betrayal, or just growing resentments can bring up the feeling that the marriage may have been a mistake. For many, these rough patches pass and the marriage continues on a healthy footing. If a … Read more

7 Ways To Reinvent Yourself After Divorce

7 Ways To Reinvent Yourself After Divorce

7 Ways To Reinvent Yourself Post-Divorce Become A New, Improved You Despite Divorce If you’re recently divorced, you probably want to reinvent yourself too. Being single and living without your spouse is a huge change, and part of being divorced is reconciling who you were before you married your ex with the person you are now. … Read more

What Happens If You Violate A Parenting Plan?

Child Custody in Washington State

Ideally, when couples get divorced, they have discussed the details and execution of a parenting plan. If all has been handled appropriately and lawfully, disputes should be minimal and the only reason that’s left for you to engage with each other is to exchange your children at the designated handover time.  However, bad blood often … Read more

What Is The Difference Between Custody and Guardianship

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In the event of divorce, it’s important to understand the distinction between custody and guardianship. They are both centered around the care of a minor, but there are different circumstances where custody and guardianship apply. Your Custody Rights Custody is a term reserved most commonly for divorce court. If you are a biological parent, you … Read more

Can I Change My Mind After Signing Divorce Papers?

can i change my mind after signing divorce papers

The divorce process involves a lot of decision-making and conflict resolution that affects your finances, children, and other personal affairs. Even well-reasoned husbands and fathers can find themselves making emotional decisions without a firm understanding of what is at stake. Additionally, changes in your life after the divorce may require revisiting some of the previously … Read more

5 Ways to Get Through Being Alone on Valentine’s Day After a Divorce

Sad unhappy man waiting for girlfriend on valentine date, Valentine's Day After Divorce

To put it lightly, Valentine’s Day after divorce can be complicated. Many would agree that being single or being alone on a day meant for love can feel like a world-ending catastrophe with the punchline of every joke ending in, “Actually, it’s Singles Awareness Day.”   In reality, Valentine’s Day may serve as a painful reminder … Read more

Six Child Custody Mistakes You Should Avoid

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While divorce is typically hard, it’s even harder when kids are involved. You have to deal with the emotional turmoil of separating from someone you thought would be a lifetime partner and also battle for custody of your kids. Very few people can think and act straight under such circumstances, and as such, it’s not … Read more

Common Divorce Mistakes Men Make

Divorce rates in the U.S. declined from 2009 to 2019, but divorces are still commonplace. According to the American Psychological Association, more than 90 percent of Americans will marry before age 50, but up to 40 to 50 percent of marriages in the U.S. ultimately end in divorce. Of course, no one gets married thinking … Read more

Should You File for Divorce During the Current Health Crisis?

Divorce during covid

The COVID-19 pandemic has created a new normal in America. With over 32 million cases in the United States alone, lockdown orders, mask mandates, and record unemployment numbers had many Americans staying home throughout 2020.  Every relationship contains stress and conflict, but many couples were pushed to the breaking point due to added stress caused … Read more

What to Expect When Moving to a New Place After a Divorce

where to move after divorce

Divorce is considered the second most stressful life event that can occur. It’s second only to the death of a spouse and, when considering other high-stress events such as moving and significant financial changes, it can quickly feel overwhelming.  No one gets married to get a divorce, but divorce is more common than you might … Read more

Moving Forward Financially After Divorce

couple fighting over money

With divorce having an average cost of $12,900, it’s no wonder that so many are struggling financially after divorce. Where your divorce takes place, whether or not it goes to trial, attorney expenses, property division, and other legal fees will all factor into the cost of your divorce. Yet, financial struggles don’t end with divorce … Read more

A Guide to Amicable Divorce

guide to an amicable divorce

Divorce is a complex process no matter how you go about it, but there are ways to make the process easier.  With the right mindset and a little professional help, you can have an amicable split from your spouse – one with little to no friction.  What is an Amicable Divorce? An amicable divorce means … Read more

Why Hire Divorce Lawyers For Men

guide to an amicable divorce

Making the decision to hire an attorney to represent you can be a tough; choosing which attorney makes the call even tougher. Why choose Divorce Lawyers for Men? Because we get the results that men want and need in Court. That is why you hire a lawyer; to get better results than you could get … Read more

Child Support and Uncontested Divorce

Dad with son playing American football

An uncontested divorce is the fastest and easiest way to get a divorce if you have an amicable relationship with your spouse. However, if you are a parent of minor children, child support issues can add to the difficulty of getting an uncontested divorce. While it might make you hesitate about proceeding with an uncontested … Read more

How to Get a Quick and Easy Uncontested Divorce in Washington State

The process of a divorce can be expensive, time-consuming, and stressful. As difficult as divorce may seem, a “quick” and easy divorce is possible. If you have an agreeable relationship with your spouse, an uncontested divorce may be the perfect solution to your situation. What is an Uncontested Divorce? An uncontested divorce refers to divorce … Read more

Can I Force My Spouse Out Of Our House?

Women with Suitcases

When a couple is going through a divorce, or is on the verge of a divorce, there usually comes a time when living together in the same space becomes stressful to the point of being impossible. It is also common for neither spouse to want to leave the marital home, especially if there are minor … Read more

What is a Joint Petition for Divorce?

No one gets married expecting it to end in divorce. However, the unfortunate reality is that sometimes relationships just don’t work out. Whether it’s irreconcilable differences or another issue, in many cases divorce is the only option. The good news is divorce doesn’t always have to be messy. For some couples, they’re able to make … Read more

Washington No-Fault Divorce: What are the Grounds for a Dissolution of Marriage?

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Divorce is a decision that should never be taken lightly. Unfortunately, there are many instances in which divorce is simply unavoidable, and it’s in the best interest of all parties involved to file a dissolution of marriage. Before proceeding, however, it’s essential to understand that Washington State is a no-fault divorce state.   What is a … Read more

How to Handle Custody and Visitation During the Divorce Process

child custody during divorce process

Divorce can be a lengthy and contentious process.  But there are some issues that must be addressed as soon as a couple is separating and cannot be delayed until finalization of the divorce.  Those concerns are usually dealt with through temporary agreements and temporary court orders.   The needs of children must continue to be met, … Read more

What Happens if a Divorce Goes to Trial?

what happens if a divorce goes to trial

For a divorce to start, a spouse must file and serve a petition to initiate the lawsuit. There may be temporary hearings to help solve immediate issues until a settlement agreement is reached or a trial can determine a more permanent solution. Temporary Orders are often proposed and approved by the court to sort out … Read more

What Your Divorce Lawyer Needs to Know

The dissolution of a marriage comes with issues that can be difficult or confusing for someone to face on their own. You are required to make tough decisions, from division of assets and alimony to child custody. It’s possible a divorce could go to trial, in which case you’ll want a lawyer to represent you … Read more

Uncontested Divorce in Washington State: Will It Work for You?

You and your spouse have decided to end your relationship. What are your next steps? Since Washington is a “no-fault” state, you do not have to worry about proving anything more than the marriage is irretrievably broken.  The next step is to identify whether or not your divorce will be contested or uncontested. Uncontested Divorce … Read more

Coronavirus and Divorce: Why the U.S. Divorce Rate Has Started to Spike

Coronavirus and divorce

In the early days of the COVID-19 pandemic, some people predicted another U.S. baby boom.  Unfortunately, sheltering in place has had its drawbacks, as some couples have experienced more turbulence than marital bliss. The latest reports suggest there is actually a COVID divorce boom.  Today, you will see why coronavirus and divorce are linked and … Read more

The Holidays and the Psychological Effects of Divorce on Children

father and daughter celebrating christmas

Divorce is difficult for everyone involved, including your kids.  The holidays can be an especially difficult time for your kids. They experience a sense of excitement and nostalgia, but with so much of their lives now changing, children can have a hard time enjoying themselves.  Thankfully, understanding the psychological effects of divorce on children can … Read more

A Guide to Getting a Divorce in Washington State

Divorce can be an emotional experience. However, if you understand the process of getting a divorce in Washington State, it may reduce the anxiety by limiting the amount of unknowns. Moreover, knowing what to prepare for before and throughout the different stages of divorce can often make a huge difference in the outcome. Preparing for … Read more

Managing Virtual School and Custody

Parent Managing Virtual School

This school year has been unlike any other in recent history.  The education system has been rocked by the inability to maintain the traditional classroom environment as a result of COVID-19.  Children and their parents are now expected to take on some of the tasks that were previously the responsibility of the school.  Everyone is … Read more

Preparing to Meet with Your Divorce Attorney

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There is plenty on your mind already if you’ve reached the point that you are meeting with a divorce attorney about your case. Here are some things to remember before your initial consultation. It’s Stressful Meeting with a divorce attorney for a consultation can be nerve wracking.  You’re meeting with someone you don’t know, to … Read more

7 Unusual Washington State Divorce Laws

Unusual Washington State Divorce Laws

Going into a divorce, you may be overwhelmed with advice, some of which is informed and much of which is not. However, Washington state divorce laws are straightforward and can be interpreted by an experienced men’s divorce attorney in Olympia, Washington to give you a clear idea of how a divorce can be resolved. This does … Read more

5 Misconceptions About Common Law Marriage in Washington State

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Common law marriages are the subject of many misconceptions, primarily because the concept seems so amorphous. In fact, Washington does not use the term “common law marriage,” except when referring to couples who formed a common law marriage outside Washington and seek recognition of their common law marriage in Washington. However, an analog to common … Read more

Legal Separation in Washington: What Does It Really Mean?

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In Washington there are two ways to address the end of your marriage. Dissolution (divorce) is the common way and legally terminates the marriage.  Legal Separation is a way to formalize a separation without terminating the marriage.  People choose one over the other depending on the situation. Common law marriages are not recognized in Washington, … Read more

Who Gets Custody of a Child When the Parents are Not Married?

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When unmarried couples separate, it’s not surprising that they fight over child custody. The process of resolving custody issues can be tedious and emotional, not only for the parents but for the children as well.  Generally, the kids remain with the mother, but the number of fathers gaining child custody is increasing. According to the U.S. … Read more

Divorce With Better Communication

Your Washington Divorce with better Communication They say that habits are hard to break. It is the lack of communication or the style of communication that usually causes the relationship to deteriorate and sometimes become hostile. When going through a divorce and even after the divorce is final you will still need to communicate with … Read more

10 Shocking Divorce Statistics

Divorce is an emotionally challenging event for all parties involved as no one enters a marriage expecting it to fail. Yet, approximately 45% of marriages end in divorce in the United States alone. Various studies have looked into different factors that could cause a marriage to end in divorce and from these studies, we compiled … Read more

How to Handle Divorce During the Pandemic

Divorce During COVID-19

WHAT YOU CAN DO ABOUT YOUR DIVORCE DURING THE PANDEMIC There are many of us that are frustrated for a number of reasons during the community shut-downs that have happened as a result of the COVID-19 pandemic.  Not the least of those frustrations, are the negative impacts the closures of the courts, and the delays … Read more

Child Custody and Visitation During COVID-19 in Washington

Families everywhere are struggling with how to handle child custody and visitation during COVID-19 and the Governor’s stay-at-home order. Some co-parents are quarantining together and others fighting about whether or not the exchanges should still be taking place. How Do I Handle Child Exchanges And Visitation Right Now? The Governor’s stay-at-home order poses a difficult … Read more

Is Divorce Bad?

Contemplating Divorce

Is divorce bad?  Or a mistake?  Is divorce a failure? Or is divorce acknowledging a mistake?  Is divorce accepting that people and life change?  Is it better to stay in an unhappy marriage for the sake of the children?  Or move on and create a happier and healthier home for the children?  Is it better … Read more

Divorce Statistics and Facts in Washington State

Divorce in Washington State

The state of Divorce in Washington State from 2009 to 2019 What’s the Real Divorce Rate in Washington State? A lot of us have already heard the statistic, ‘50% of all marriages end in divorce’. Is this really true? And what’s the divorce rate in Washington state? A lot of people do get divorced, but … Read more

9 Reasons Being Single During the Holidays isn’t Bad

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It’s Truly the ‘Most Wonderful Time of the Year’ The holiday season has arrived.  The leaves have fallen, the air is crisp, and trash cans everywhere are overflowing with empty pumpkin spice latte cups. For the married, there are couple’s holiday cards to make, arguments to be had about which holiday parties to attend, and … Read more

Frank’s Divorce Survival Rules For Men (Video)

Frank's Divorce Rules for Men

Co-founder of Divorce Lawyers for Men, Frank Morris, has been trying and winning cases for his clients for over 35 years. During those 35 years he developed several rules that have helped his clients to win. Watch his video and read the rules for surviving divorce. If you need a men’s divorce lawyer in Vancouver, … Read more

Understanding the Divorce Process in Washington State

The Washington State Divorce Process

We know that navigating the Divorce Process in Washington State is a challenge. To help, we’ve created this easy-to-follow infographic that maps each turn straightaway on the Divorce Highway. You can find more detailed information about How to File for Divorce here; as well as information on what to do if Your Wife Files for Divorce by clicking … Read more

Frank Morris Interview on The Divorce Sucks! Podcast

The Divorce Sucks Podcast Interview with Frank Morris

The Divorce Sucks! Podcast featuring Frank Morris Laura reached out to Frank for an interview on the The Divorce Sucks! Podcast, with the desire to understand the special issues men face in divorce. Frank was happy to share some difficulties his clients have faced, and how he has helped clients make it through their divorce … Read more

How Do I Cope with An Unwanted Divorce?

Man thinking, dealing with stress of unwanted divorce

“When you can’t control what’s happening, challenge yourself to control the way you respond to what’s happening. That’s where your power is.” Facing divorce and all the implications of it are daunting in the best of situations.  However, life can become very challenging if you are being forced into an unwanted divorce or separation.  Your … Read more

The Deck is Stacked Against Men in Divorce

Divorce has always been an uphill fight for men.  The deck is just stacked against them.  Both our societal norms and judicial attitudes make getting a fair break difficult for men in the divorce process. The current Washington State laws controlling divorce strive to be “Gender Neutral”.  The legislature has attempted to remove all gender … Read more

Father’s Day Visitations is a Top Priority

Fathers Day Visitation is a Top Priority

There are always conflicting and overlapping claims by parents for the right to child visitation on a particular day, but visitation with the father on Father’s Day has to be to a top priority. It is the one day each year that has been created to recognize and honor the special relationship between children and … Read more

Winning Your Divorce Before Trial

Win Your Divorce Before Trial

Most divorce cases never go to trial. The day you file for divorce, your trial date is months and thousands of dollars away. Divorces are won and lost in pretrial work and negotiations.  Here’s what you need to know about winning your divorce case before trial. Winning Your Divorce Case Starts With the First Step … Read more

Getting Your Kids to School is Your Job

Getting Your Kids to School is Your Job

It is important to understand your legal obligation as a parent to make sure your children actually go to school. Sometimes, people don’t take that obligation very seriously.  Maybe you, or your co-parent, think your kids missing some school days isn’t a big deal. Well, you’d be wrong. The state takes school attendance very seriously … Read more

Credit Card Debt and How it’s Handled in Divorce

Credit Cards

Divorce is one of the most difficult things a person might face in their lifetime. But, it turns out, divorcing your spouse may be easier than divorcing your credit card debt. Understanding what your options are for separating yourself financially from your former spouse is a critical first step in rebuilding your life after your … Read more

How Fathers Can Win Custody

How Father Can Win Custody

Understanding Child Custody for Fathers in Washington Winning full custody, for either party, generally requires there to be substantial evidence that one parent is a detriment to the child’s well-being. There is a considerable amount of research that shows interaction from both fathers and mothers is vital to the psyche of a child. The courts … Read more

Which Parent Should Claim Child on Taxes

Which Parent Should Claim Child on Taxes

Everyone loves seeing that wonderful notification from our tax prep company saying that our taxes have been accepted by the IRS.  For some, however, the notification will be of rejection.  A common problem among divorced parents is the other parent claiming the child(ren) as a dependent(s) when they haven’t been given the authority via court … Read more

Ten Ways to Get Through a Breakup

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Both men and women experience heartbreak after a split, but men can experience it differently. Depression in men can show up as physical symptoms such as headaches, sleep problems, fatigue, digestive disorders, and emotional symptoms such as irritability or anger and a loss of interest in work, relationships or hobbies. While the dark and often stormy … Read more

What You Need to Know About Going to Court

Court Room

Going to court can be intimidating.  For most of us, the courthouse is an unknown world with language, procedures and expectations that are difficult to understand.  The unknown leaves us uncomfortable and anxious. If you are a party to a legal proceeding, or even a witness, it may help you feel more at ease to … Read more

Making the Most of Military Marriage

Making the Most of Military Marriage

Military marriage is a challenge, but what marriage isn’t?  The military introduces its own wrinkles into a marriage with crazy work schedules, deployments, moves, and an abundance of income (just kidding).  Despite all of its challenges, it can provide an incredibly meaningful and comforting environment for two people to enjoy each other.  “Do you want … Read more

Domestic Violence and Alimony

Domestic Violence

Would our Courts order the victim of Domestic Violence to pay spousal support to the abuser? Unfortunately, Yes. Washington is a “No-Fault” State for divorce.  That means you do not have to plead and prove Marital Misconduct to obtain a divorce.  You are not even allowed to mention it.  Since the only grounds for divorce … Read more

The Reason I Ended My Relationship

The Reason I Ended My Relationship

Making the decision to move on from a relationship, simply, is not that simple. Human beings are incredibly weird creatures.  You’ve probably recognized that we do really weird things for fame, wealth, and especially love.  As social animals, we have been endowed with a set of traits and have developed social norms that make us … Read more

Grandparents’ Visitation Rights in Washington State

Grandparents’ Visitation Rights in Washington State

GRANDPARENTS’ VISITATION RIGHTS IN WASHINGTON STATE The Washington State Legislature has passed a second attempt to legislatively grant Grandparents the right to seek Court ordered visitation with their Grandchildren, SB 5598, now codified as RCW 26.11.010 – 060, Nonparental Child Visitation – Relatives.  This has created a clearer picture for grandparents’ visitation rights in Washington. … Read more

The Complete Guide to Divorce Mediation (Part 3 of 3)

Finances in divorce. Wife husband can not make settlement

Inside resolution outside of court: Exploring options for settling disputes without going to trial In this article, we’ll describe private mediations and how to prepare for them   This article focuses on private mediation used in family law cases, such as divorces and resolving issues with parenting plans. For our article covering settlement conferences click … Read more

7 Awesome Thanksgiving Traditions for Blended Families

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The Holidays are tough on recently Divorced families, and Thanksgiving is no exception. For years your family probably had the same traditions. Maybe you always went to your in-laws for Thanksgiving, or maybe you and your ex were in charge of hosting guests every year. Maybe you always made plans to go out of town with your ex. But, now … Read more

Health Insurance After Divorce

Health Insurance After Divorce

One of the most critical things people often forget about during a divorce is the loss of health care insurance for you and your children.   Most divorce decrees involving children will address the issue of insurance for the children. It is almost always a good idea to have an agreement on who will be … Read more