Divorce Lawyers for Men

“My wife took the house, the car, and everything else and all I got were the bills.”

It is a common belief among men that their spouses will take everything in a divorce. This doesn’t have to happen. Washington is a Community Property state. That means that, at the time of divorce, all of the family’s property and debts are before the court to be equitably divided between the couple.

An Equitable Split

If there is no divorce settlement agreement in place, it is the court’s job to “equitably” divide all the family assets. Equitably does not always mean “equally”. The court will often award a greater share of the property and fewer debts to the lower wage earning spouse. Even property you owned separately before the marriage can potentially be divided by the court.

Does this mean the wife gets to stay in the house and drive the cars while the husband pays the mortgage and the car insurance? Not at all. All property including assets and debts are divided during a divorce. The court strives to give each spouse an equitable share of both debts and property.

Community vs. Separate Property

self-representationDivorce law in Washington generally regards assets and debts acquired during the marriage as Community Property, but everything the spouses acquired and owned before the marriage is Separate Property. Generally each party is awarded their own separate property, and a portion of the community property. When dividing property, the court considers several factors including the length of the marriage and the financial differences between the spouses. When a marriage has lasted a long time or one spouse is severely challenged financially, the court may even award a portion of your separate property to your wife.

The division of property often hits men hard. As husbands usually work more than wives, a man can suddenly see everything he has long worked for being divided up, given away, and not necessarily equally. Men who have worked hard to build a small business face the possibility of losing part of it in divorce, or being forced to sell.

It is vital for you and your attorney to be thorough in your valuation of the assets. You may need the assistance of real estate agents and/or accountants to provide accurate appraisals of property or business holdings. Once the divorce is final, the property and debt division included in the Decree is final and cannot be changed. You only have one opportunity to win a fair division of the property and it must happen before the divorce is finalized. Characterizing property as “community” or “separate” is often one of the most difficult tasks during divorce. Many legal issues can affect that determination.

What About My Retirement?

Many men are surprised to discover that pensions and retirement plans are community property and are divided in a divorce. Depending on the type of benefit plan, there are different rules governing division. Speak with one of our attorneys to learn more about how your retirement plan will be affected.

Divorce Lawyers For Men™ attorneys can advise and assist you in carefully evaluating your assets and debts, and those of your spouse, in order to get you the most fair division of property possible.

If you would like more information on the divorce process, or to take the best divorce resources with you in print, please check out our free divorce guide for men or contact our office to meet with an attorney about your particular circumstances.

“My wife wanted to live in our house with her new boyfriend while I kept paying the mortgage. Divorce Lawyers For Men made sure the court saw all our property and debts. We sold the house and split the proceeds. I didn’t have to pay for any free rides.” – Gregory T.


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